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Couple's Feet in Bed
Today our sexuality is an open ended personal project. It is part of who we are; an identity, and no longer merely something we do.
Esther Perel

Sex Therapy Online and Face to Face in Warlingham, Surrey

Do you have a close bond but issues in your sexual relationship? Maybe the sexual problem has starting to cause other problems within your relationship and you feel its time do something about it. Or are you struggling to begin or maintain relationships as an individual due to anxieties around sex? With all of this it's important to know, you are not alone. Psychological issues with sex that cause performance anxieties or anticipatory anxieties and even physical reactions are more common than you realise.


Psychosexual therapy (or sex therapy) can be transformative. Sex therapy is a programme which includes a thorough assessment, history take and individualised/ couple exercises. It also incorporates methodologies around the latest neuroscience. Using research based interventions, as well as psycho education (giving you information about ways to cope and change). A dual approach with relationship therapy is often also required.


LGTBQ+ Sex therapy


It is also worth saying that sex therapy program historically has taken a heteronormative approach. Modern sex therapy embraces all sexualities. Same sex/ LGTBQ+ gay sex therapy utilising essentially the same program, but still recognises differences, there is sometimes a requirement to acknowledge difficulties around living in a heteronormative society .


Sex Therapy will help individuals or couples with lots of sexual problems including (but not only!):

  • Loss of desire

  • Erection problems

  • Premature ejaculation

  • Other ejaculation problems 

  • Loss of desire

  • Painful Sex

  • Vaginismus

  • Vulval Pain

  • Problems with orgasms 

  • Kink

  • Fetishes 


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